"REAL" meaning of Positivity

"REAL" meaning of Positivity

Positivity - What's the Meaning?

"Frequently Spoken and Heard word in today's world." Isn't it?

What's the definition you know of this word? 

I can bet, almost 99% of us will claim that we actually know what it is and would describe as follows:

• Positivity is ignoring all the negative thoughts that we have. 
• Positivity is being OPTIMISTIC.
• Positivity is thinking more on what we have as if we've already got that.... bla bla bla... 
• Positivity works magically, if we follow and practice it without thinking or concentrating on the negative thoughts/possibilities.

Correct?

I am sure, most of you have thought of these answers. And I would not say they are wrong completely. It's right only but Partially. NOT FULLY. I would rather call your definition of "Positivity" as "Wishful Thinking" (Meaning imaginary thinking of what you actually want in your life). Which can be at times possibly very far from the reality.  !!! Be cautious !!! Because this wishful thinking what you consider as "positivity" could be more dangerous than Negativity.

Let me put it other way. Let me tell you what "Positivity" is NOT:

• Positivity is not just to think positive and simply ignore all the possible negative things in life.
• In this case, where's the REALITY? Where's the logic?
• Positivity is not only being OPTIMISTIC in all the case.
• Being optimistic is really a very positive and good thought process, but not ignoring the practical scenario. Think over again if you are practicing such Optimism. 
• Positivity is not only focusing on what you want in life, but also considering the probable situational risks on the way of your goal / desires. Also focusing more on the ways to overcome those risks. I would say, this is the actual positive approach.
• Positivity is not at all a magic. You need to understand this clearly. Nothing happens without an actual effort for it. Nothing happens overnight.

Let me give you an example:

If you are going for a job interview. What all the thoughts you will have at that time if you are practicing that "Positivity" (rather wishful thinking)???

• I will get that job definitely. This confidence is required but not only this is required that's my point.
• I will convince the interviewer because, I am visualizing that I have already got the job. I will attract that job for me, because I have that power of positivity.

These all are your wishes and not actually, you are doing anything for this. Perhaps, you (like most of others) are thinking that, being positive and not at all thinking negative sides, will be the right positive approach. But which is really not true at all logically / practically. 

Rather, you should have more focus on 

• "Why company/interviewer will hire me for this job while there are 100 applicants for the same position?" 
• "What I have different in me then all others?"
• "What I can show as value addition for them?" 

And should have put more efforts on those things to fine tune yourself for that job interview. This way, you can surely stand different than all others.

What's the point in putting 100% to prepare for a job interview? Instead, just research about the company/position you are applying for how much you can. And be prepared to just show your related knowledge during the interview. Upon this, you can keep the attitude like: "I have tried my hard researching about the company and position what I am going to give an interview: now if I get the job, It will be good for both - Me & Company :), and if I don't get the job, it's okay !!! Something even bigger is planned for me !!! Cheers !!!" If you have this much at least, you surely won't have to struggle to convince the interviewer. Because, that confidence only will speak for you.  And that 100% efforts you can put in your work after getting that job. What Say? 

Think differently to be different, it's as simple as that. 

"If you will continue thinking the way you are thinking currently, you cannot expect a change at all in your life." ------ K'Tool :-) 

Being positive is the most powerful thing; but if it's interpreted wrongly, it can be the most dangerous thing for your coming life.

Change your perceptions / prejudices / bound thoughts for anything in life start going with the flow and focusing more on your desires/goals and ways to achieve them, you will definitely find the way towards all the goals and desires you have.

Have an actual POSITIVE life... 

Cheers !!!

Choose your thoughts

Choose your thoughts

Choose your thoughts wisely.

Almost all of us are not satisfied with what we have. In other words, we can say we desire always more than we have in our life, no matter what it is and how much it is.

Now, although we are wanting more and more from life, we always tend to think those things repeatedly what we don't want in our life in real. Or, about those things / situations what we never wish to happen in our life. I would term it as 'negative things/thoughts' .This is simply our thought process, or I would call it 'human thinking habit'. By following this tendency, we attract those things more in our life. This is because of the universal law, that is, The Law Of Attraction.

As we all know, there is abundance in the universe ( in terms of energy, things, situation whatever we call it). And it is equally available for everyone. Only your thinking habits or attitude or tendency makes you different from others.

The law of attraction does not know anything about good or bad, wanted or unwanted, positive or negative, etc... It just follow your thoughts and simply attract the things/situations in your life for you from the universe.

Now as much as you focus more on the things / situations (Whether positive or negative) , you are unknowingly simply giving commands to your subconscious mind and in turns the law of attraction applies on it.

So, as the result, you will get that thing / situation in your life. It may be possible, that it is not the situation or thing what you actually wished or wanted in your life. But, the reason you are having this currently is only that you have repeatedly thought or focused for that thing/situation.

So be wise while choosing your thoughts. If you really try to change your approach towards the things / situations in life, you can realise that there is always a positive side of every situation in life. And our goal should be focus on that positive side of it. It's simple.

So, start thinking about those things / situations repeatedly and practice this until you get it.

You will definitely realise at one point of time, how surprisingly ways became easy for you to achieve your desires.

Believe me, It works whether you believe it or not, whether  you know it or not.

Enjoy Positive life with all your goals or desires fulfilled.

  

Successful LIFE

Think YOU are Successful

Think you are Successful...

Spending a life Vs Living it

Live your life instead of just spending

Enjoy Living your life

We usually take almost everything for granted in the life. And by doing so, We are just 'Spending' our lives like that, not 'Living' it. This is complete injustice we are doing to ourselves. 

Spending Vs. Living

Spending a life is nothing but taking everything that we come across, as granted.To simplify it, I can say, to live life without any specific goal or to emphasis more on the unwanted or unexpected situations more then our actual goals in life. 

Any situation that comes in our life or (on the way to our goal), has to be tackled very much carefully every time. Now, think are we doing the same? The answer is: NO for most of us. This is a normal human tendency or thought process.

Now, on other hand, Living a life suggests to make the most out of it. Meaning, whatever the situation we come across (rather it is positive, good, expected or it is negative or unexpected ), we just need to accept that and go ahead with that in positive direction only towards our goals. By doing it, we simply ignore every unwanted situations, that we come across, and emphasis more on our actual goals. And as the result, you will go faster and faster towards your goals.

Remember, there is no other life we have (in bank or anywhere else). So, we have to make the most out of it. And we only can do it just by changing our approach towards it.

This universe gives everything in abundance which is equal for everyone regardless of the gender or religion or anything else. It's up to us, how we want our life. 

We have to choose from what we actually need in life and what we never wish to have in our life. 

Make your choice wisely and live the life at it's fullest. you will gradually come to know that you started getting everything as you ever wanted.

Have a very successful life ... :-) 

Attitude

Believe in your Goals

Attitude matters

Whenever we make our goal, at the same time, we also start developing doubts for the same thing.

It's a human tendency to focus more and more on the negative outcomes, that, according to them, might going to happen.

You need to make a goal and stick to the path towards it blindly, regardless of any unexpected things, that comes on your way.

Just keep on thinking about your goal and try to live your goal rather thinking again and again about the hurdles that you might come across on the way towards your goal.

That will surely work for you.

Slight change in your approach, can change your entire Life...

Approach to anything can make a major impact on our life.

Failure can be your biggest Teacher

Whenever we come across any negative situation in life, we usually start thinking negative only about the same thing. Like, " Why am I only going through all this?" , "Why I failed?" and many more.

We simply start complaining about all the negative things that have happened with us. But, we need to take that simply in positive manner. 
Rather thinking negative about all unwanted things or events or experiences in our life, if we learn to find out a single positive thing out of it, our life can be magically changed.

Law Of Attraction Facts

'7' Secret Tips for Making the Law of Attraction Work

          These days it seems that everyone is talking about "the law of attraction". Many have tried applying it with great success while others have not. If you are one of those who have not been successful at applying it to your own life or have yet to try it for yourself, then I will give you seven secrets that have helped me to manifest great success in my own life. 

1.) Become aware. Look at how your emotions effect the way you view others and interact with them. Are you ruled by your emotions? Many people are controlled by their feelings but it doesn't have to be that way. Believe it or not you can choose how you feel at any given moment and changing how you feel can completely change your experiences. 

2.) Claim your power by having joy and being grateful. If you sincerely want to see positive changes in your life then realize everything that you have to be happy and grateful for. By taking control of your emotions you are taking control of your life. When you become a positive influence to those around you things begin to change in a positive way. 

3.) What do you want? Figure out what it is that you want in your life more than anything else. This may seem hard at first and if you are having difficulty then, by all means, ask for inspiration while feeling good about it and the answer will come to you. 

4.) Ask for it and believe that it already on its way. Have faith that you will receive that which you desire above all else to the point of being happy and grateful for having it in your life. Visualize yourself as already having it. Release it and go on about your daily life being happy grateful. 

5.) Never dwell on the past. Think about now and be grateful for all that is to come. When we dwell on the past we are only renewing old ways of thinking that keep us from getting that which we truly want. Be happy and grateful for your present and all of the good things you are now attracting into your life.

6.) Receive it gratefully. Always feel happy and grateful when you receive what you asked for into your life and each time it will become easier. 

7.) View problems as challenges and lessons to be learned while on the path to reaching your greatest potential.