Goals Vs Wishes

Goals Vs Wish

Most of us, if asked, would say, Yes we know what’s the goal. But, it’s not at all true.

Most of us believe that whatever we want in our life, is/are our goal. But, there we are wrong partially.  Those are called “Desires” or “Wishes” not the actual goal.

Actual definition of GOAL would be: 

“Goal is a plan to achieve all of our desires / Wishes.”   ---K’ Tool …

A very famous quote says: A GOAL WITHOUT A PLAN IS A SIMPLE WISH ONLY.

Now as we all know what’s the meaning of Goal in life in any context, how many of us now will agree that we don’t at all have any goal in life??? Weird question? But, believe me, we are simply misinterpreting the definition of “GOAL” that’s it. Because, if we analyze and think about our current activities / work pattern in which we are living our lives, then we can clearly see, that we are just going behind things which we need to / we have to do. And it’s a biggest mistake of the life, according to me. Because, that we are doing because we are bound to do it. But, we are not thinking or rather not doing anything for our any of “WISHES”, “DESIRES”.  

In the back of the mind, everyone knows that what he/she wants in life, or what he / she wants to see his/her self in near/long future. But, that’s just a wish. Think on that. What actually you are doing to fulfill your desires in life? Any desire of yours – be it non-materialistic wish.

A simple thing I am saying is: “One must should have a goal in life”. Regardless of short term or long term goal. Otherwise, what’s the difference between us and a dumb animal?

NOTHING, Simple!!!

Goal should be anything, any wish.

For example, your ultimate goal you have set for you / your life is:

You want to set up a business.

Now, if you continue ONLY doing what you are currently doing, then that so called goal will be always a wish for you. Simple. You need to push yourself and along with your current activities you need to plan something to reach your actual goal. You need to think and work hard. You need to come out of you comfort zone to find different possible ways which can take you nearer to your actual Goals in life.

Three Most important points you need to keep in your mind:

1.     Build a Goal for you.

a.    Goal should be out of reach but not out of sight.

b.    It should seem to be so much hard to achieve. Because, if you know at the start only that what you need to do to achieve, then GOAL is not big enough.

c.    Plan properly and design your own way to reach and achieve your goals.

2.     Believe in yourself and your goals.

a.    Initially, goal should be like anybody can laugh at. Don’t worry, it’s a sign of a powerful goal you have set.

b.    Just because someone is not believing your goals, don’t at all question your capabilities.

                                          i.    Because, if you can think about that much big goal, it’s definitely possible for you to find ways to reach there and achieve it. It’s straight.

3.     Never change your goal in between

a.    Because of some setbacks on the way, don’t at all change your goal.

b.    Rather, try to change your way.

c.    If you can’t believe your goals, then you can’t achieve them that’s the fact.

"REAL" meaning of Positivity

"REAL" meaning of Positivity

Positivity - What's the Meaning?

"Frequently Spoken and Heard word in today's world." Isn't it?

What's the definition you know of this word? 

I can bet, almost 99% of us will claim that we actually know what it is and would describe as follows:

• Positivity is ignoring all the negative thoughts that we have. 
• Positivity is being OPTIMISTIC.
• Positivity is thinking more on what we have as if we've already got that.... bla bla bla... 
• Positivity works magically, if we follow and practice it without thinking or concentrating on the negative thoughts/possibilities.

Correct?

I am sure, most of you have thought of these answers. And I would not say they are wrong completely. It's right only but Partially. NOT FULLY. I would rather call your definition of "Positivity" as "Wishful Thinking" (Meaning imaginary thinking of what you actually want in your life). Which can be at times possibly very far from the reality.  !!! Be cautious !!! Because this wishful thinking what you consider as "positivity" could be more dangerous than Negativity.

Let me put it other way. Let me tell you what "Positivity" is NOT:

• Positivity is not just to think positive and simply ignore all the possible negative things in life.
• In this case, where's the REALITY? Where's the logic?
• Positivity is not only being OPTIMISTIC in all the case.
• Being optimistic is really a very positive and good thought process, but not ignoring the practical scenario. Think over again if you are practicing such Optimism. 
• Positivity is not only focusing on what you want in life, but also considering the probable situational risks on the way of your goal / desires. Also focusing more on the ways to overcome those risks. I would say, this is the actual positive approach.
• Positivity is not at all a magic. You need to understand this clearly. Nothing happens without an actual effort for it. Nothing happens overnight.

Let me give you an example:

If you are going for a job interview. What all the thoughts you will have at that time if you are practicing that "Positivity" (rather wishful thinking)???

• I will get that job definitely. This confidence is required but not only this is required that's my point.
• I will convince the interviewer because, I am visualizing that I have already got the job. I will attract that job for me, because I have that power of positivity.

These all are your wishes and not actually, you are doing anything for this. Perhaps, you (like most of others) are thinking that, being positive and not at all thinking negative sides, will be the right positive approach. But which is really not true at all logically / practically. 

Rather, you should have more focus on 

• "Why company/interviewer will hire me for this job while there are 100 applicants for the same position?" 
• "What I have different in me then all others?"
• "What I can show as value addition for them?" 

And should have put more efforts on those things to fine tune yourself for that job interview. This way, you can surely stand different than all others.

What's the point in putting 100% to prepare for a job interview? Instead, just research about the company/position you are applying for how much you can. And be prepared to just show your related knowledge during the interview. Upon this, you can keep the attitude like: "I have tried my hard researching about the company and position what I am going to give an interview: now if I get the job, It will be good for both - Me & Company :), and if I don't get the job, it's okay !!! Something even bigger is planned for me !!! Cheers !!!" If you have this much at least, you surely won't have to struggle to convince the interviewer. Because, that confidence only will speak for you.  And that 100% efforts you can put in your work after getting that job. What Say? 

Think differently to be different, it's as simple as that. 

"If you will continue thinking the way you are thinking currently, you cannot expect a change at all in your life." ------ K'Tool :-) 

Being positive is the most powerful thing; but if it's interpreted wrongly, it can be the most dangerous thing for your coming life.

Change your perceptions / prejudices / bound thoughts for anything in life start going with the flow and focusing more on your desires/goals and ways to achieve them, you will definitely find the way towards all the goals and desires you have.

Have an actual POSITIVE life... 

Cheers !!!

Become A Powerful Magnet

Become A Powerful Magnet

You are now very much clear by understanding the law, that we are like a magnet. And we are attracting all those things or happenings in life, for what we have been thinking repeatedly. Correct?

But, Being a magnet and not changing our thought process, or the way we look at the things come in our way of life, this magnet characteristics can harm us. And in fact, normally it happens with almost 85-90% of the people who really know how this law works, still. And the reason behind this, is nothing but lots of unnecessary thoughts running and fighting actually, in the back of the mind, that is, in our subconscious.

But, we can make this law work for us to attract only positive things in our life, don’t we? The best practice to achieve this, is to control your thoughts and keep faith in this law. Yes, completely trust it. That’s it.

Let me simplify it in the engineering terms.

Do you know why one piece of steel becomes a powerful magnet while another piece is simply an ordinary lump of steel? In an ordinary lump of steel, the positive- and negative-charged atoms are going in a hodgepodge (Mixed or confused) of directions. The magnetized steel, however, has had its atoms lined up so that all its positively charged atoms face one direction and all its negatively charged atoms face the opposite direction. This alignment of atoms is what transforms ordinary steel into an attracting magnet. Do you know how this alignment occurs? One way is to place ordinary steel in close proximity to a lodestone, one of Earth's natural magnets. The lodestone's strongly polarized atoms have a polarizing effect on nearby steel.

Most of us, like the ordinary lump of steel, are sending mixed messages to the universe, and as the reason being, we're confused about whom we truly are and what's important to us. In other words, what really we want and we don’t. We feel uncertain about our purpose in this life. We say one thing but believe another, don't we?

For example, you can refer to your daily prayers for anything. I mean whenever you pray for something, say for example, you pray in the morning, that, “Please lord, Today let me get my favorite job, let me get your blessings, I am going for the interview.” After leaving for the interview, you are continuously thinking (rather doubting yourself and also the blessings which you asked from the lord before leaving) about only the one thing, that “Really will I get through the interview today? Will I really get the job?” And as the result, you will definitely attract the negative result for you. It’s not a magic, but the simple science. The science of the law of attraction. It works this way only. If you doubt it and don’t trust it, then surely it is never going to work for you. Because, though you don’t want the negatives to happen with you, you continuously giving the negative commands only to the subconscious and as the result, it attracts the same for you in your life.

Thus, if we want to become powerful magnets, attracting more of what we enjoy into our lives, then we will need to have clear, positive, good feelings about ourselves. We can discover who we are and what we truly love by noticing what feels good. Then we can begin to accept ourselves with our personal set of preferences and act in ways that honor our core values. Core values are deeply embedded values that give us guidance by producing good feelings when we honor them and negative feelings when we don't. Honesty, kindness, loyalty, compassion, and goodness are all core values to name some.

Choose your thoughts

Choose your thoughts

Choose your thoughts wisely.

Almost all of us are not satisfied with what we have. In other words, we can say we desire always more than we have in our life, no matter what it is and how much it is.

Now, although we are wanting more and more from life, we always tend to think those things repeatedly what we don't want in our life in real. Or, about those things / situations what we never wish to happen in our life. I would term it as 'negative things/thoughts' .This is simply our thought process, or I would call it 'human thinking habit'. By following this tendency, we attract those things more in our life. This is because of the universal law, that is, The Law Of Attraction.

As we all know, there is abundance in the universe ( in terms of energy, things, situation whatever we call it). And it is equally available for everyone. Only your thinking habits or attitude or tendency makes you different from others.

The law of attraction does not know anything about good or bad, wanted or unwanted, positive or negative, etc... It just follow your thoughts and simply attract the things/situations in your life for you from the universe.

Now as much as you focus more on the things / situations (Whether positive or negative) , you are unknowingly simply giving commands to your subconscious mind and in turns the law of attraction applies on it.

So, as the result, you will get that thing / situation in your life. It may be possible, that it is not the situation or thing what you actually wished or wanted in your life. But, the reason you are having this currently is only that you have repeatedly thought or focused for that thing/situation.

So be wise while choosing your thoughts. If you really try to change your approach towards the things / situations in life, you can realise that there is always a positive side of every situation in life. And our goal should be focus on that positive side of it. It's simple.

So, start thinking about those things / situations repeatedly and practice this until you get it.

You will definitely realise at one point of time, how surprisingly ways became easy for you to achieve your desires.

Believe me, It works whether you believe it or not, whether  you know it or not.

Enjoy Positive life with all your goals or desires fulfilled.

  

Successful LIFE

Think YOU are Successful

Think you are Successful...

Live your OWN life

Live your OWN life

Live your Own Life

Every time, we wish to have more and more from our life. Or in other words, different then whatever we have in life. 
Every time, whenever we see someone living life the same way we always wished to live, we without failed, think " Kash !!! Muze bhi iske jaisi life mili hoti " meaning " I wish I could have  all that he is having or I wish I could live the same life he is living " . 

But, always remember, that Law Of Attraction always works, whether you believe it or not.
And this Law simply states that whatever you think, you are attracting the same into your life, it's as simple as that.

Now, you never know how many negative things that person is having in his life, which in turns you wish to have in your life ( unknowingly and unwantedly ).

Moral is : 

Never Compare own life with anyone else's.
Never wish to have or live life of anyone else' life.

Be sure that whatever you are or whatever you have in life, you have only attracted into your life...and that's the only fact.

Just be so much sure about your thinking and your desires. Meaning, just try to think whatever you want into your life, rather than thinking repeatedly those things which you never wish to have into your life.

Live your own life .... !!! Believe me , You will find it so much beautiful and worth living.

Spending a life Vs Living it

Live your life instead of just spending

Enjoy Living your life

We usually take almost everything for granted in the life. And by doing so, We are just 'Spending' our lives like that, not 'Living' it. This is complete injustice we are doing to ourselves. 

Spending Vs. Living

Spending a life is nothing but taking everything that we come across, as granted.To simplify it, I can say, to live life without any specific goal or to emphasis more on the unwanted or unexpected situations more then our actual goals in life. 

Any situation that comes in our life or (on the way to our goal), has to be tackled very much carefully every time. Now, think are we doing the same? The answer is: NO for most of us. This is a normal human tendency or thought process.

Now, on other hand, Living a life suggests to make the most out of it. Meaning, whatever the situation we come across (rather it is positive, good, expected or it is negative or unexpected ), we just need to accept that and go ahead with that in positive direction only towards our goals. By doing it, we simply ignore every unwanted situations, that we come across, and emphasis more on our actual goals. And as the result, you will go faster and faster towards your goals.

Remember, there is no other life we have (in bank or anywhere else). So, we have to make the most out of it. And we only can do it just by changing our approach towards it.

This universe gives everything in abundance which is equal for everyone regardless of the gender or religion or anything else. It's up to us, how we want our life. 

We have to choose from what we actually need in life and what we never wish to have in our life. 

Make your choice wisely and live the life at it's fullest. you will gradually come to know that you started getting everything as you ever wanted.

Have a very successful life ... :-) 

Attitude

Believe in your Goals

Attitude matters

Whenever we make our goal, at the same time, we also start developing doubts for the same thing.

It's a human tendency to focus more and more on the negative outcomes, that, according to them, might going to happen.

You need to make a goal and stick to the path towards it blindly, regardless of any unexpected things, that comes on your way.

Just keep on thinking about your goal and try to live your goal rather thinking again and again about the hurdles that you might come across on the way towards your goal.

That will surely work for you.