Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Remove Negative Labels

BE WISE

Don't let others tell you what you can or cannot do!
Others might know you a little and based on their perception, only they will give you such so called "Labels" for you, which might be not true always. 
"Labels" are extremely powerful influences in our lives and at times can be proven as the most dangerous thing also for our life. because whether the positive labels or negative labels, both will impact your life in a significant amount. 

Therefore,  What labels are you wearing around that you need to let go of? 
  • Are you thinking according to labels that may have been placed on you that you are not good enough? 
  • Are you thinking that you are not smart enough? 
  • Are you thinking that you are not strong enough? 
  • Are you thinking that something is not possible for you???

That label which is preventing you from advancing and/or preventing you from being what you were put here on earth to fulfill can only stop you from reaching your full potential if you believe that you are not capable. 

Are you capable? Most certainly you are! 

You are more than enough, so as of today believe that you are not less than whoever has done it before. 

I strongly believe that : "experts can be wrong." They don’t know what God has placed in you. You are magnificent! You are incredible! You are amazing! You are capable of doing things in your best ways! You are more than stronger in every way! 

Take this into consideration. Whatever labels you are wearing around, be it positive or negative, you will become what that label is.

"People judge by outward appearance, but God looks at the heart."
The funny thing about labels is that they first begin from the outside and we then grow up believing what was said to us. The labels become tapes and then we internalize what they tell us about not being capable. Again, you are more than capable! You are a child of the most high! Therefore you must believe that. The sad part of it is that people that are close to you (the ones that should be there to encourage) often discourage you and are the ones who limit your growth. Sometimes our own near ones are guilty of doing so. As of today if you are reading this, I want you to believe that no matter what others have said about you, you have a choice if you will believe or not. Remember: You are capable! You are magnificent! You are a leader! You are here to leave your mark! The idea of you being lesser than magnificent is a myth.

Remember, you are not what people say you are. So don't let their negative labels hold you back. You are here to be the game changer. You are here to make a difference. You are talented. You are more than what others want to think!
You don't have to wear the labels others place on you, because they are not true. What is true is if you dwell on what was said about you that will eventually be you. STOP NOW and Focus on what you are and that is MAGNIFICENT, CAPABLE, UNIQUE, AWESOME and INCREDIBLE!

Tuesday, January 07, 2014

Choose your thoughts

Choose your thoughts



Choose your thoughts wisely.

Almost all of us are not satisfied with what we have. In other words, we can say we desire always more than we have in our life, no matter what it is and how much it is.

Now, although we are wanting more and more from life, we always tend to think those things repeatedly what we don't want in our life in real. Or, about those things / situations what we never wish to happen in our life. I would term it as 'negative things/thoughts' .This is simply our thought process, or I would call it 'human thinking habit'. By following this tendency, we attract those things more in our life. This is because of the universal law, that is, The Law Of Attraction.

As we all know, there is abundance in the universe ( in terms of energy, things, situation whatever we call it). And it is equally available for everyone. Only your thinking habits or attitude or tendency makes you different from others.

The law of attraction does not know anything about good or bad, wanted or unwanted, positive or negative, etc... It just follow your thoughts and simply attract the things/situations in your life for you from the universe.


Now as much as you focus more on the things / situations (Whether positive or negative) , you are unknowingly simply giving commands to your subconscious mind and in turns the law of attraction applies on it.


So, as the result, you will get that thing / situation in your life. It may be possible, that it is not the situation or thing what you actually wished or wanted in your life. But, the reason you are having this currently is only that you have repeatedly thought or focused for that thing/situation.

So be wise while choosing your thoughts. If you really try to change your approach towards the things / situations in life, you can realise that there is always a positive side of every situation in life. And our goal should be focus on that positive side of it. It's simple.

So, start thinking about those things / situations repeatedly and practice this until you get it.

You will definitely realise at one point of time, how surprisingly ways became easy for you to achieve your desires.

Believe me, It works whether you believe it or not, whether  you know it or not.

Enjoy Positive life with all your goals or desires fulfilled.


  



Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Spending a life Vs Living it


Live your life instead of just spending

Enjoy Living your life
We usually take almost everything for granted in the life. And by doing so, We are just 'Spending' our lives like that, not 'Living' it. This is complete injustice we are doing to ourselves. 


Spending Vs. Living


Spending a life is nothing but taking everything that we come across, as granted.To simplify it, I can say, to live life without any specific goal or to emphasis more on the unwanted or unexpected situations more then our actual goals in life. 

Any situation that comes in our life or (on the way to our goal), has to be tackled very much carefully every time. Now, think are we doing the same? The answer is: NO for most of us. This is a normal human tendency or thought process.

Now, on other hand, Living a life suggests to make the most out of it. Meaning, whatever the situation we come across (rather it is positive, good, expected or it is negative or unexpected ), we just need to accept that and go ahead with that in positive direction only towards our goals. By doing it, we simply ignore every unwanted situations, that we come across, and emphasis more on our actual goals. And as the result, you will go faster and faster towards your goals.

Remember, there is no other life we have (in bank or anywhere else). So, we have to make the most out of it. And we only can do it just by changing our approach towards it.

This universe gives everything in abundance which is equal for everyone regardless of the gender or religion or anything else. It's up to us, how we want our life. 

We have to choose from what we actually need in life and what we never wish to have in our life. 

Make your choice wisely and live the life at it's fullest. you will gradually come to know that you started getting everything as you ever wanted.

Have a very successful life ... :-) 

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Attitude



Believe in your Goals

Attitude matters
Whenever we make our goal, at the same time, we also start developing doubts for the same thing.

It's a human tendency to focus more and more on the negative outcomes, that, according to them, might going to happen.


You need to make a goal and stick to the path towards it blindly, regardless of any unexpected things, that comes on your way.

Just keep on thinking about your goal and try to live your goal rather thinking again and again about the hurdles that you might come across on the way towards your goal.

That will surely work for you.

Sunday, February 03, 2013

Drive your thoughts and let them drive your LIFE...


Happiness with Positive Thinking Tips

Traffic of your thoughts

Being a negative thinker is very unhealthy as it lowers your self-esteem and bad for your morale. It drains your energy rapidly and causes you to lose focus. To stop being a negative thinker, you have to change your thoughts pattern.

1. The First tip to being positive is to look after your body and mind. To ensure that you are in a good shape, eat well, exercise regularly, sleep well and spend time with your family. A relaxed and healthy body is a natural attractant for positive energy.
2. Reject and delete any negative thoughts that flashed through your mind. Researchers found out that an average person has about 60 000 thoughts being flashed through his mind on a single day. Why should anyone cling onto a negative thought? Make a conscious decision, and do your best to rid of any negative thoughts.

3. Hug your loved ones. By hugging, it increases your self-esteem. It makes you feel comfortable and loved. Move past a cold and sturdy handshake, and hug someone you really love and care for.

4. Positive Vibes: Make sure that you surround yourself with happy, cheerful people. Avoid friends who think poorly of themselves. This way your mind will always pick up positive vibes.

5. Be Grateful: On a piece of paper, write down all the things that you are happy and grateful for. They can be your friends, your colleagues and your family. After you are done with the writing, paste the list somewhere it is conspicuous so that you can see it every day. This will remind you of all the things you are grateful for and not take the things you have now for granted. Most importantly, it keeps you happy too.

6. Respect your Self-esteem: Get out of the habit of fixing labels to people and situations. Don't say "I always knew it" "I always said so" "She never cared for me" "You have always used me”, etc. Such negative thoughts put you on a negative footing. They also lower your self-esteem.

7. Do not ever be afraid to speak up. You will never gain confidence if you do. You do not need to bother what others might view you as if you speak up as you are living your own life, not others. Opportunities may slip away if you remain silent.

8. Don't think of the negative stuff when something happened. When your boss asks for you, don't think of him reprimanding you or giving you a sack. Life is unpredictable; he may want to give you a raise in salary for your excellent performance.

9. Extend a helping hand to those in need. You can read a story to your neighbor's mother who is crippled and can't move; or you may go out and trim the garden of an orphanage on a weekend you are free. You will find that these small gestures have a wonderful way of generating positive energy. They make you feel warm, energetic and wanted.

10. Control your negative thoughts: There may be times when you find it impossible to get rid of negative thoughts. In such situations you should go out of your house for a walk or a jog. You can even go to the gym and do some light exercises. Such activity takes your mind off the negative thoughts.

Try these easy tips to get rid of all the negative thoughts and events and experiences.

Friday, February 01, 2013

Slight change in your approach, can change your entire Life...



Approach to anything can make a major impact on our life.


Failure can be your biggest Teacher
Whenever we come across any negative situation in life, we usually start thinking negative only about the same thing. Like, " Why am I only going through all this?" , "Why I failed?" and many more.
We simply start complaining about all the negative things that have happened with us. But, we need to take that simply in positive manner. 
Rather thinking negative about all unwanted things or events or experiences in our life, if we learn to find out a single positive thing out of it, our life can be magically changed.

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Law Of Attraction Facts


'7' Secret Tips for Making the Law of Attraction Work
          These days it seems that everyone is talking about "the law of attraction". Many have tried applying it with great success while others have not. If you are one of those who have not been successful at applying it to your own life or have yet to try it for yourself, then I will give you seven secrets that have helped me to manifest great success in my own life. 


1.) Become aware. Look at how your emotions effect the way you view others and interact with them. Are you ruled by your emotions? Many people are controlled by their feelings but it doesn't have to be that way. Believe it or not you can choose how you feel at any given moment and changing how you feel can completely change your experiences. 

2.) Claim your power by having joy and being grateful. If you sincerely want to see positive changes in your life then realize everything that you have to be happy and grateful for. By taking control of your emotions you are taking control of your life. When you become a positive influence to those around you things begin to change in a positive way. 

3.) What do you want? Figure out what it is that you want in your life more than anything else. This may seem hard at first and if you are having difficulty then, by all means, ask for inspiration while feeling good about it and the answer will come to you. 

4.) Ask for it and believe that it already on its way. Have faith that you will receive that which you desire above all else to the point of being happy and grateful for having it in your life. Visualize yourself as already having it. Release it and go on about your daily life being happy grateful. 

5.) Never dwell on the past. Think about now and be grateful for all that is to come. When we dwell on the past we are only renewing old ways of thinking that keep us from getting that which we truly want. Be happy and grateful for your present and all of the good things you are now attracting into your life.

6.) Receive it gratefully. Always feel happy and grateful when you receive what you asked for into your life and each time it will become easier. 

7.) View problems as challenges and lessons to be learned while on the path to reaching your greatest potential.