Goals
Vs Wish
Most
of us, if asked, would say, Yes we know what’s the goal. But, it’s not at all
true.
Most
of us believe that whatever we want in our life, is/are our goal. But, there we
are wrong partially. Those are called “Desires”
or “Wishes” not the actual goal.
Actual
definition of GOAL would be:
“Goal is a plan to achieve all of our
desires / Wishes.” ---K’ Tool …
A
very famous quote says: A GOAL WITHOUT A PLAN IS A SIMPLE WISH ONLY.
Now
as we all know what’s the meaning of Goal in life in any context, how many of
us now will agree that we don’t at all have any goal in life??? Weird question?
But, believe me, we are simply misinterpreting the definition of “GOAL” that’s
it. Because, if we analyze and think about our current activities / work
pattern in which we are living our lives, then we can clearly see, that we are
just going behind things which we need to / we have to do. And it’s a biggest
mistake of the life, according to me. Because, that we are doing because we are
bound to do it. But, we are not thinking or rather not doing anything for our
any of “WISHES”, “DESIRES”.
In
the back of the mind, everyone knows that what he/she wants in life, or what he
/ she wants to see his/her self in near/long future. But, that’s just a wish. Think
on that. What actually you are doing to fulfill your desires in life? Any
desire of yours – be it non-materialistic wish.
A
simple thing I am saying is: “One must should have a goal in life”. Regardless
of short term or long term goal. Otherwise, what’s the difference between us
and a dumb animal?
NOTHING,
Simple!!!
Goal
should be anything, any wish.
For
example, your ultimate goal you have set for you / your life is:
You
want to set up a business.
Now,
if you continue ONLY doing what you are currently doing, then that so called
goal will be always a wish for you. Simple. You need to push yourself and along
with your current activities you need to plan something to reach your actual goal.
You need to think and work hard. You need to come out of you comfort zone to
find different possible ways which can take you nearer to your actual Goals in
life.
Three
Most important points you need to keep in your mind:
1.
Build a Goal
for you.
a.
Goal should
be out of reach but not out of sight.
b.
It should seem
to be so much hard to achieve. Because, if you know at the start only that what
you need to do to achieve, then GOAL is not big enough.
c.
Plan properly
and design your own way to reach and achieve your goals.
2.
Believe in
yourself and your goals.
a.
Initially,
goal should be like anybody can laugh at. Don’t worry, it’s a sign of a
powerful goal you have set.
b.
Just because
someone is not believing your goals, don’t at all question your capabilities.
i. Because,
if you can think about that much big goal, it’s definitely possible for you to
find ways to reach there and achieve it. It’s straight.
3.
Never change
your goal in between
a.
Because of
some setbacks on the way, don’t at all change your goal.
b.
Rather, try
to change your way.
c.
If you can’t
believe your goals, then you can’t achieve them that’s the fact.
